
No room in the home so perfectly typifies the communism of a family, the true uniting in diversity of the individuals, as the sitting- room. It is the centre of the social life of the household. It is “mother’s room.” There she is oftenest found in her moments of leisure, ready to hear, to sympathize, to console, and to advise. Here the father frolics with his children; here they listen to song and story read aloud; here the troubles of the day dwindle and disappear, or are softened and lessened by united sympathizing and soothing surroundings; here nuts and mild jokes are cracked, and rosy apples and fragrant oranges lend their flavor and juicy richness to the homely scene, while without the wind blows, the rain falls, or the snow flies.
To make this room the ideal hearth-stone, its furnishings should contain elements that appeal to the tastes and pursuits of each of the members of the household. There should be room, if possible, for favorite chairs and for shelves or bookcases, and tables for each one’s choice of books and papers, and for undisturbed corners and cosey nooks, if each has only a chair and footstool, or portion of a drawer, or a curtained shelf. Places where the studious, the ambitious, or the thoughtful can work out their pet projects, or keep safely their treasured plans and possessions, ready for the sudden inspiration or the industrious mood, which quite as often seizes one amid the family chatter as in the solitude of one’s own room. To secure all this will require considerable outlay as well as much unselfish thought on the part of the home-maker. The outlay, however, can usually be modified, adding purchases from time to time as family growth and taste may show them to be desirable. Indeed, the true furnishing of such a room, after a certain point, must be a matter of growth.
Excerpted from The House Comfortable by Agnes Bailey Ormbsbee, chapter XIII, “The Family Hearth-Stone.” Harper & Brothers, 1892.




















